tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post7154211054008828726..comments2023-10-21T05:06:42.063-07:00Comments on Welcome to Married Life: FlabbergastedKristahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04030109870736499425noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post-88438351140492586042008-05-18T20:55:00.000-07:002008-05-18T20:55:00.000-07:00Delurking to comment - yes, my name is Blue Momma ...Delurking to comment - yes, my name is Blue Momma and I am a lurker.<BR/><BR/>Group dynamics are always difficult to me, which is why I have tended to avoid joining groups. I'm in a moms group now and I love it, but sometimes if feels a bit junior high.<BR/><BR/>If they are working around everyone's schedule but yours, as much as it might sting at first, you are probably better off to find that these aren't the folks for you sooner rather than later. Find another group and be done with it. And like Jen said, at least you get an easy out!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post-58406062235582791302008-05-08T07:35:00.000-07:002008-05-08T07:35:00.000-07:00I am so sorry she hurt your feelings by being so i...I am so sorry she hurt your feelings by being so insenstive. That's not a nice thing to do. But look at it this way...you guys were becoming unhappy with the group any way and you were given an easy "out." Maybe this happened because there is a group better suited for you guys just around the corner....Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16283334035989645291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post-4980820340483898342008-05-07T19:30:00.000-07:002008-05-07T19:30:00.000-07:00Don't let this get the best of you! So sorry that...Don't let this get the best of you! So sorry that you're feeling this. I hope you find a better group/situation!LittlePaintedPolkaDotshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16460301517234366160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post-20372298682757930542008-05-07T17:34:00.000-07:002008-05-07T17:34:00.000-07:00I agree with "anonymous." Groups CAN get clickish...I agree with "anonymous." Groups CAN get clickish. My husband and I never really go to any of those sorts of things because we tend to make friends in various different circles, and the circles never seem to intersect. But we are fine with that because those friends are the dearest to our hearts. I've always been like that with friends (even as a kid and teen). If I had a party thrown for me (HA!), none of my friends would know each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post-9290729526989950822008-05-06T09:46:00.000-07:002008-05-06T09:46:00.000-07:00{{{Krista}}}You fit in here!!!{{{Krista}}}<BR/><BR/>You fit in here!!!Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13843141103424224033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post-37987024032116635062008-05-05T19:34:00.000-07:002008-05-05T19:34:00.000-07:00Ive noticed that anykind of hangout gruips have a ...Ive noticed that anykind of hangout gruips have a tendancy to get click-ish at times (even the non churchy ones) When I ran a moms bible study that concern was somthing on my mind and was prayed over by many people- amazingly God provided and we all did prietty well despite diverseitys. the reason I think it went so well was all the prayer and focusing on what God wanted. You do sound very very angry and hurt and bitter-so use it in a motivating way, dont let it eat you alive even if it feels good to pick at it and think about it over and over in the end it will only hurt you, forgivness is never easy...but its the only way to truly be free.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post-8095630350948196992008-05-05T12:53:00.000-07:002008-05-05T12:53:00.000-07:00I know I wouldn't mind having you guys around.I know I wouldn't mind having you guys around.LeRoy Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13766846178409973897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post-83346005719338050252008-05-05T12:44:00.000-07:002008-05-05T12:44:00.000-07:00Wow. You know, it just burns me up how people can...Wow. You know, it just burns me up how people can be so blunt with what they say out of Christian love and kindness. I'm sorry she hurt you. ((hugs))Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07836804230239409478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20146645.post-64745851167509320142008-05-05T11:23:00.000-07:002008-05-05T11:23:00.000-07:00Reading this reminded me so much of the experience...Reading this reminded me so much of the experience my husband and I had at our old church. It was an experience that left me so unbelievably bitter that I refuse to step foot into another church again.<BR/><BR/>I always felt judged and not good enough. I always felt out of place.<BR/><BR/>It's been almost a year since this happened and I'm just now starting to think about looking for another church.<BR/><BR/>It's frustrating. Keep your head up. I'm always around if you need to talk.Franceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00743786677867778141noreply@blogger.com